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There's nothing wrong with someone making an offer to be in a band. But there's also nothing wrong with rejecting said offer (though I think it should be done professionally). A lot of great bands never would have happened if someone hadn't lobbied at a closed door (Eisley). _________________ My photography:www.jamiemphoto.com You can't spell awesome without emo...backwards! -Julie definingawesome (11:44:11 PM): Eisley shivers our timbers |
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crazeemunkeyz wrote: TheAntrider wrote: A lot of great bands never would have happened if someone hadn't lobbied at a closed door (Eisley). What? Stacy wanted to be in the band, but Chauntelle and Sherri weren't interested. But she persisted and proved herself worthy. But I probably missed part of the point. I'm recovering from a week-plus of illness, and I'm half a country away from home. _________________ My photography:www.jamiemphoto.com You can't spell awesome without emo...backwards! -Julie definingawesome (11:44:11 PM): Eisley shivers our timbers |
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hisownshot wrote: And he proceeded to say things like, "I want to jam!" (we don't just jam, byw) and "I wish I could play!" and "I want to be in a band... but you probably don't want a clarinet..."
So I said, "Well, clarinet would be hard to add" and he said, get this... "Not really" Is the clarinet hard to add because it's inappropriate to the style of music you play? Tell him to save heis pennies, buy a wind controller/synth rig, and then come back and you'll talk. =) _________________ "If those are my last words, I can do better." |
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hisownshot wrote: I've basically been in this band for a few months, we've written songs, figured out covers, learned jazz charts and played gigs. And we have a gig on Friday, so I told my clarinet playing friend he should come and bring friends, since it's at an ice skate arena.
And he proceeded to say things like, "I want to jam!" (we don't just jam, byw) and "I wish I could play!" and "I want to be in a band... but you probably don't want a clarinet..." So I said, "Well, clarinet would be hard to add" and he said, get this... "Not really" WAY to make it awkward. Tell your friend no, straight up. Don't leave false hope if there really is no hope. Edit - I voted no because I have no musical talent. |
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anotherrandomtuesday wrote: I would never straight up ask. I may say, however, "If you ever need a (insert instrument here) player, just let me know," or something like that.
It's situational really. Same. _________________ Thistledown |
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TheAntrider wrote: A lot of great bands never would have happened if someone hadn't lobbied at a closed door (Eisley). Haha, it took me about 15 seconds to figure that out. I was like, "No, it can't be John." Then I was like, "Oh, I'm dumb." _________________ EisleyForever wrote: you're A-list in my heart! MAKECOLDPLAYHISTORY |
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DRMS_7888 wrote: TheAntrider wrote: A lot of great bands never would have happened if someone hadn't lobbied at a closed door (Eisley). Haha, it took me about 15 seconds to figure that out. I was like, "No, it can't be John." Then I was like, "Oh, I'm dumb." Someone hasn't been studying their Eisley history very much. _________________ Thistledown |
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i wouldnt but that isnt saying people shouldnt. i just have too much pride _________________ But I cannot discover any advantage except in honor, in glory, and in right action. Therefore I consider these goals to be primary and supreme over all others. Cicero |
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"dood, can I join yer band? You guyz r awesome. I want to be awesome..." no. anotherrandomtuesday wrote: Quote: I would never straight up ask. I may say, however, "If you ever need a (insert instrument here) player, just let me know," or something like that.
It's situational really. _________________ Gosh, writings music Ryan5 wrote: I still love Eisley a gamahucheing million time better than farting |
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no, because most people are all uptight about their stupid emo bands... err, i mean, no, i'm not speaking from experience. _________________ Saellys wrote: Thank God for Arielle all your kind, they're coming clean they shut their eyes their mess, their scene |
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